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I hate my job so much that I don't know how to stand it. I've already tried multiple different occupations and every one was worse than the other one. I know, I know. I should keep trying new things until I find something that's right for me. But the reality is that you can't keep quitting job traineeships, I already had a hard enough time getting accepted in my current one because it's hard to convince an employer that you will stay with him If you've quit so many before. There's also the social pressure that's crippling me and is making me feel even more like an absolute failure. The worst thing is that I know what I want, but there doesn't seem to be a profession that meets all my priority expectations, so there's always that one thing that absolutely sucks and makes my life hell but the alternative isn't better, it's just a different hell. I'm difficult, I know that, but what can I do? I don't know. I'll just stay in this one and see how long I can make it before I shut down.

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  • No job should make you feel that way. Yeah, the 'perfect' job doesn't exist. But if you hate every single job THIS much, to quit before you even finish training, you're just being overdramatic. Hear me out before you argue. Any job takes time to get used to. Any job will feel like it's awful in the beginning until you actually get into the swing of things and start making friends there. And if you quit in training, you're not even giving yourself a chance for that to happen. When I first started my job, I thought I'd made a horrible mistake. My first month or two sucked. But then I got used to it and I actually started to like it a little bit. Now I don't know if I want to work anywhere else. Things aren't always easy. Maybe instead of calling it 'hell' when you dislike an aspect of a job, give yourself a chance to adjust and look at all the things about it that you DO like. Don't focus on the bad things, you'll never be happy that way.

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I have this co-worker whom I always caught staring at me. I approached him once and asked him, "Hey, dude! Any challenges or problems you wanna share?" but he just shook his head. One time during our lunch break, while I'm eating my meal with my 'closer' friends... He'd normally eat with his friends, but then he cam asking if he can join us. Well, we are workmates, so we said 'yes'. He stares at me blankly and confused. He seems to have a question on his face like 'Hey, can I sit beside you?'. So, I moved a little. Guess what?? He sat next to me happily. (weird, isn't it?) My daily routine after eating my meal is going to the Mini Stop store and buy myself a soda, and then go directly in-front of Robinsons Supermarket (it's 2am.. they are closed, and it's a little dark in there) to enjoy my soda while playing mobile games or browsing facebook. I got startled when someone groans "yo" out of nowhere. He stand right befor me and asked "Can I?" Then I realized that it's him again... no other than but Marc. I answered "sure! no problem." Then he sat right next to me. I heard him say "Hey.." after some minutes of silence. "Yes? Anything that bothers you?" I responded. He said this in a total mess, without a pause like an EK gun being fired, and then walk away like a boss... "You know what, I have this weird feeling for you since that day you helped me out with that call. I don't know but my life just become happier when you're around. I feel no worries everytime you're near or whenever I see you smile, even if you're not smiling at me. I know that this is really weird, and I don't really know why or how. I also know that you'll find this weird or a sort like a shit, but I am saying it anyway. I don't expect you to say anything or respond to me with whatever, I just wanna let you know what I feel because I am bothered too. I am so much bothered that I like you but you just seem to ignore me." I was like 'what the hell did he say?' Seriously?

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  • He knows you probably don't like him back but he wanted to tell you how he feels to get it off his chest. What is there to not understand?

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I don't want to drive to work. I want to work from home.

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at work super bored, guess ill start pacing back and forth

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For the first time in my life I could not celebrate Christmas bc I had to work and when I told friends and family they all felt sad for me but I actually could not have been happier for I don't care about Christmas and hey, working on a holiday means double payment and I could really use the money sooo...

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So, here's what happened... I working at a Business Process Outsourcing company (call center), and I don't really understand why my boss just gave me away. There's this new client, which we were told to be a bigger client than my client or boss, and they need agents to handle this new client. Sad to say, I am one of those who were assigned to be a part of this new client. I really hate the fact that my boss just gave me away to that new client. My boss told me that the new client is a very important client, so it needs to be handled by 'top performing agents'. "Top performing" what? Seriously??? I know I am doing my best, but surely I am not on-top. And if so, how come that they just gave me away like a shit? And now I am struggling with this new client. I really wanted to say this in-front of them... tgat I wanna quit, but I can't. I need this job, but I'm hopeless. What should I do? #AECOM #Marriott

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  • I'm not saying this to be mean, so please bear with me here. This confession reads to me as 'ugh no my boss basically promoted me and told me I'm GOOD even though I know I'm NOT and just gave me away like a toy he doesn't want anymore I HATE it because it's too HARD for me fuck my life'. Now, I fully understand how this feels like a bad situation to you. Really, I do. Maybe not to the fullest extend (I'm not you, after all). But I think you're under 3 big misconceptions here. One, you and your boss aren't friends and you're not a valuable possession of his that suddenly proved to be less valuable than you thought because he 'gave you away'. You're an employee. He is neither just freely handing you around nor is he showing you that he doesn't value you by assigning you someone else, he's simply trying to make a good decision for the company by looking at the strengths of his workers. Two, if that new client really is as big and important as you said it was, then your boss would have NEVER let you handle him if you really were as mediocre as you think you are. So give yourself some credit because obviously you're at least looking like a good worker and that is something you should be proud of. Three, if the task really is too much for you, you have two options: see it as a great opportunity to test out your own boundaries (not everyone gets the chance to do this), you might in the end surprise yourself. Or you tell your boss that you aren't able to handle the client and then see what happens.

  • They didn't give you away. They assigned you to something special because you're the best they've got, because you can do better than whatever you're doing for them. They entrusted you with an important task because they like you and think you can handle it. And it may be hard now, but I think you'll get the hang of it. Don't give up.

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This lady that sits near me at work was irritating me last night. She got a customer who's Asian and kept interrupting her. When she got off the call she kept bitching about "the oriental woman" she couldn't understand. It annoys me when customers bitch about another agent who had an accent. But it straight pisses me off when it's a coworker saying that about a customer. I get if you're having a bad day or you're just a bitch in general, but don't be racist. If I get a customer I can't understand, I blame it on the phone not coming in clearly when I ask them to repeat something. And if a customer really pissed me off I try to wait until I'm in my car on break to let it out. Or just angrily scribble on a notepad. I didn't say anything to that lady because I didn't want to start anything and I didn't know if it was bad enough to take it to a coach. I just hope she gets moved away from me soon or gets fired. She was also talking to a new person about why this job sucks so maybe she'll quit.

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  • Update: the coworker from this story either quit or was fired some time this week. Not gonna lie, made me smile a little when I realized it.

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When finals came, I literally felt free. But then I realized I still have work, research to do and papers to submit for publications. Welp..... I guess it really never ends here. I'm just so tired. I want a break. but then like I wonder, if I was on a vacation all the time, how long will it actually take for me to say that I need to go back to college, study again, and pursue more of my career?

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I hate the idea that if you have a talent, it's your duty to better it and use it. Everyone older than me keeps saying that. I don't LIKE writing, or translating texts, or analyzing literature, and I have no fucking interest in linguistics. Honestly, I'm not sure how my teachers came to the conclusion that I'm so good at those things but they're boring. Since middle school, people have been expecting me to become some successful academic or shit, but I don't want any of that. Even when I had a cleaning job, my coworkers told me they expect me to do something "way bigger" and leave the job soon. I'm sick of hearing about it. I want to do something simple and unnoticeable with my life!

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  • They do it because they can't stand watching you have what they wish they had and not put it to use. It's a little bit like watching one of those horror movies where the characters just won't do the logical thing and get killed and you want to scream at them. It's also often older people saying it because they regret not pursuing a higher career in their own youth and now being stuck in a miserable life, having a boring and tiring job that doesn't give them enough money to fulfil their dreams, just because when they were young they didn't mind sleeping on the floor for their art degree or liked having more free time as a cashier than their friends who studied medicine. They regret this and want to save you of this regret.

  • People did the same to me with math, science, AND writing. 'Oh you should be an author!' 'Oh you should go into the STEM program, they're dying to have girls join!' 'Oh you should be an astrophysicist' like fucking just LEAVE ME ALONE and let me do my art. I like writing sometimes but I'm really not good enough to make a career of it, and I loathe math and science careers. Like just let me live my own life dammit

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I hate the idea that if you have a talent, it's your duty to better it and use it. Everyone older than me keeps saying that. I don't LIKE writing, or translating texts, or analyzing literature, and I have no fucking interest in linguistics. Honestly, I'm not sure how my teachers came to the conclusion that I'm so good at those things but they're boring. Since middle school, people have been expecting me to become some successful academic or shit, but I don't want any of that. Even when I had a cleaning job, my coworkers told me they expect me to do something "way bigger" and leave the job soon. I'm sick of hearing about it. I want to do something simple and unnoticeable with my life!

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