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People who cant explain their feelings towards a topic dont deserve to have an opinion an it at all. I know someone who constantly gives stupid and illogical opinions on something, and whe i ask why he just says i dont know, in the most confident way possible. example: we live in a country where you can go to clubs and drink at the age of 18. in America, you need to be 21. He said hed prefer it when he couldnt drink by the age of 18, despite this being his age and going to bars from time to time, plus wanting to have the freedom to do things on his own like a grown up person that he legally is by now. I really dont know if he is mentally challenged or traumatised through incapeabillity to understand authority.

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  • And..what's the fuss about? I think...making that a big deal is dumb. Why be so bothered?

  • Well...i would prefer a person who knows when to shut up because he knows what he knows not, to a someone who blabbers endlessly but without depth. Wisdom is in brevity (observe wise world leaders of our times). And having a strong conviction aka principle takes time...to each his own pace when it comes to achieving higher awareness. It's an individual journey anyway. So it's very close-minded thinking to regard that as stupidity because you also had,have,will have your share of stupidities before, now and in the future.

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How many sex partners have u had in 2017?

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  • 0 cuz im giving my virginity to my soon to be husband.

  • The reason why I ask cuz I feel like a man hoe last year 😂

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I was told by my friends I have these good insights that really help them well. But if I do how the hell I can't apply them to myself? I just think and think and think and I share and share and share. I' m making others feel better for themselves. But I never change. ANd I always wonder what's in me that I can't apply to myself?

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  • It's because when you have your own problems, your thoughts are clouded by bias. But when it's your friends, you're able to approach the issue from multiple angles, and see it from various sides, so you can give them better answers than you can give yourself. Imagine that when you have problems, you're standing in a valley between two mountains. But when your friends are in the valley, you're up on top of one of the mountains. There's no emotion or bias blocking your view.

  • Hypocrisy. Sorry to say im not sorry

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Together 9 years and 2 kids together and she rejected my proposal yet again. The first couple of times, I could understand, but now? I'm done. Have fun being a single parent, bitch.

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  • Sounds like u want to feel secure. I feel u that when someone rejects ur marriage it feels like she's making herself open to other options. Tell her how u feel and discover why she rejected it many times. If we are right then that's not the right woman for u. But please please don't be that man that leaves her and her kids with no support.

  • The person who commented that you should talk to her is right! I know many women who live in long-term relationships without getting married and they don't want to get married either. Most of them had seen the shitty marriage of their parents or their relatives and are afraid that they'll mess up, too. Ask your partner. If she has 2 kids with you, she must be committed.

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My friend asked if he could suck me off the other night. He's straight and very much in love with his wife but just a little curious. It was amazing. He felt a little guilty afterwards and I tried to reassure him that him wanting to experiment a little is totally natural and he should put no more thought into than he would any other activity he would only do with a male friend (sports etc). I won't push for anything, and I'm very happy with my own partner (we have an open relationship), but I hope he wants to do a little something again.

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  • Just a typical bros night huh

  • I like how OP is just downvoting every single comment lmfao

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I couldn't give a blowjob to my boyfriend after finding out that he only wipes his ass. I came from a different culture where we use water and he is my first boyfriend. After finding that out, I could only give him every after shower. Does anyone feel the same?

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  • you used water like with tabo? Say are you filipino? If you are i get you

  • Yeah it's gross same thing with raw sex. Lots of people get stash infections because of that

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I hate being the mother of a mentally ill child. There is no help financially of job security for all the time I have to take off.... I either have to live in absolute poverty and worry about living on the streets, have a job that doesn't care about the treatment of their employees breaking labour laws constantly or discontinue support. I have lost all my dignity and I am so stressed I can't sleep or I may end up having a heart attack soon......

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  • No help financially??? What country do you live in?

  • I hate being the mentally ill child of a mother who doesn't want to take care of me. I told her I thought I had depression all the way back in middle school when I first started feeling suicidal, and she brushed it off and told me I was just a hormonal teenager. Then in high school I realized I might be bipolar like my dad, and I just wanted to get tested. She shut me down again, insisting there was nothing wrong with me. Finally, in college, she agreed that I had had anxiety for my entire life, but her attitude was just to 'get over it'- despite the fact that she also has anxiety that she sometimes takes medication for. I asked her if I could get therapy, because our insurance will pay for it, and she said no because she doesn't have time to drive me and because therapy didn't help her, so it's useless. I just feel like a burden on my mom and it makes me feel so much more suicidal thinking about how my own mother resents something about me that I can't help. Now I'm 21 years old and I still can't fucking drive because I'm too anxious to get behind the wheel, but she still won't get me help. But I can't move out until I can drive, and she can't even make time to teach me how to drive. It makes me wish I was never even born.

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My boyfriend has been distancing himself away from me. He stops acting like i exist or like he cares about me. He doesnt come visit me anymore, its like pulling teeth to have a conversation with him. I love him to the moon and back but sometimes i feel like ill be happier if i end things. Could he be cheating and should i leave him???

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  • in my opinion, i think he is giving you a sign that he doesn't want you anymore dear...if he wants to leave let him go dear because if a man really loves you he wont do any things like that.stand up and never give up, give yourself a love too.

  • I don't know if he's cheating, but he definitely seems uninterested. You deserve someone who gives you attention. You deserve someone who wants you. Cheating or not, I think you should leave him.

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I don't believe in therapy. I was forced to see a counselor after my brother died in front of me and it did nothing for me.

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  • I think it works for some people but I often wonder why I go. It seems I'm wasting my time because it doesn't help. I'm still as indecisive as ever. It's not the therapist bc it's not like she doesn't understand. It's just that therapy gives me solutions that are obvious..that I already thought of so none of it works for me. I am thinking anoint life coaching but it's too expensive

  • Yeah, therapists as generally just stealing money of people who are suffering and offering them no real solutions to their problems. I think it's quite an immoral profession despite the kindness that it's shrouded in, they offer no drugs, resources or anything of material worth and yet they charge as much as other specialists if not more.

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My friends thought I was lying about my relationship because they never saw a picture of me and my boyfriend, in Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram etc. They said I never really showed them a picture of us. And I can't show them anything because I don't have a picture of us in my phone because I love the feeling of emptiness in my phone and putting everything in one place. Plus I'm very private with my relationship with my boyfriend. Well not boyfriend anymore because today he proposed to me so yeah it was my fiance. I wonder though if they saw me wearing a ring. They'd probably would think my ring is fake. For me I find it funny because I always have to prove myself that I'm telling the truth when I actually never tell lies to my friends. My fiance and I are actually getting married privately too like just his immediately family and mines. I'm a private person and I don't trust my chatty friends who always make stories about everything out of nowhere; so I never bothered to introduce them my fiance because they'd either talk shit to me about him or they'd criticize him awfully and ask a lot of sex questions which I don't like revealing because I find it way too personal. Plus, they cheat on each other's boyfriends like why??? Two of my friends literally fought in the mall because my friend 1 met my friend 2's boyfriend got drunk and started sleeping together and has been doing it ever since. And all of them vice versa cheats on each other and there's fights like what? every month? It's massive and I also wonder why am I friends with these people?

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  • If you can't be bothered to introduce a long term boyfriend/fiance to your friends, then I honestly think you've got a problem. You have NO pictures of him because you 'like the emptiness on your phone'??? That doesn't even make any sense. You don't have to fill your gallery with pictures of him, but you should at least have a couple of them. However, your friends sound shitty, so maybe you should just get some better friends. I have a friend who is very private and didn't tell anyone his wife was pregnant until he had to leave for almost a week when she finally gave birth. Everyone was pissed, and rightfully so. That's a huge step (much like marriage) and it's shady to not tell anyone about it.

  • Birds of the same feather flock together...this is the truth i know about friendship and keeping friends. They reflect you...

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