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Am I the only one left that believes in gender roles? That it's the man's responsibility to provide, protect, do manual labor? Women responsible to Care for the home, nurture the family, be everyone's safe place? If a man sees a woman struggling with physical work an I wrong to feel he should lend a hand? I've always wondered what it would feel like to have a guy who felt he needs to do what he can to lighten my burdens. I've never needed a guy to take care of me I've always done it on my own yet I can't help but to imagine being with someone who wants to even if he doesn't have to. Instead of always being the one that takes care of everything and everyone else with very little help. Perhaps my lame ideals that relationships should be partnerships has set me up for disappointment as I find myself in one sided relationships over and over again

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  • I don't believe this because any adult person should be able to support themself alone before attempting to live with someone else.

  • am i the only one who feels the o.p is contradicting her self with what she is saying here?

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my boyfriend acts like such a bitchmade pussy. it gets on my nerves. I even told him I'm a traditional woman but he was raised by a single woman so he acts like a girl and it forces me to fill in the male gaps only cause i've seen it unlike him. today i just wanted to smack him upside his head, and I almost wanted to pick something up and bust his head open with it. he gets on my fucking nerves

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  • It's like I wrote this post but nah, I'm having the same fucking problem. I have 2 brothers I was really super close to, closer then my sisters, so I grew up really tomboyish until I hit my teens then I started doing a like makeup and shit. My boyfriend was raised mostly by a single mom and his grandma, he had a couple "dad figures" but they don't seem to have helped him at all. Plus he has only brothers, and some how he picked up almost nothing manly from anyone.

  • So break up with him and find someone who is more your type. You can't change someone else, nor do all men have to be traditionally masculine. But if traditional masculinity is what you want from a boyfriend, you just have to find a guy who is like that without anyone else forcing him to be like that.

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my boyfriend and I are trying to give our relationship one last try, we figure 3rd time is a charm and if we can't make it work then we are at a civil agreement that it just isn't healthy and can only get even worse after and our son just turned 3 months the other day and he told me that if it doesn't work out, I shouldn't worry about him moving on right away or even at all for a very long time. ( I assured him the same. I have loved one woman and now one man, I feel I don't need anymore.) He went on to tell me that he would let me keep our son the entire time I'm breastfeeding, he also said that he would by anything both me and our son would need until I found a job, also that as long as I'm breastfeeding, when he came to see our son that all three of us could go out together. Then when I'm done breastfeeding that's when we will talk about him having our son for nights and everything. Is this healthy? We only want the best for our son, and if this is how it should be, it's okay, right? I have faith that we can fix it this time because we make really good parents, but being a couple is just hard for us sometimes. Does anyone else understand or is this just crazy...?

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  • Seems weird to me that you guys are using breastfeeding as a time marker. If you guys can be civil around each other while he's breastfeeding, why not after? And why would he only have the baby for nights? It makes more sense to switch off every week, or to get him used to a school schedule where he might stay with one of you during the week and one of you on weekends. Also I recommend trying to avoid this whole thing by going to couples' counseling and learning how to have a healthy relationship and talk things out like adults without resorting to fighting.

  • it's your choice but remember that your just involved

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I'm need to lose weight bad. My last blood test showed some bad values and I need to stop eating crap and less in general.

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  • Same. I got an office job and quit doing pushups. Need to quit drinking sugary drinks.

  • Start with something that seems easy enough for you, like cooking a meal from scratch once a week (or more if you already do that). Or replacing one of the sweets you often eat with nuts or something else that is healthy but not disgusting.

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Hook up culture. Todays culture tolerates men sleeping with women just for fun. If you want a man who will love for real for the rest of your life, don't give him sex until he proves he is the real deal. I don't understand why some women accept being used and played with? When will you learn that most men need to prove themselves.

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  • I absolutely agree with OP. I'm a dude. This is the only way to weed out the flakes.

  • Sex is fun, so why should people not sleep with other people just for fun?

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I hate my girlfriend. I really can't stand her. I have tried to make her leave but she won't and every time we have sex I close my eyes and pretend that I am fucking her badass older sister. I want her sister more than anything but that's probably as close as I will ever get to having her older sister.

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  • Breaking up isn't an agreement, only one person has to choose it. Leave.

  • So dump her.

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I'm self-conscious about how much my hips sway when I walk. (Especially if I'm somewhere where there is not a lot of people but a few of them.) Maybe it's because some kids made fun of me because of it back in middle school, idk. I should know that middle school kids are dumb and make fun of anything without a reason, yet it still bothers me that my walking might look ridiculous or "sexy" to someone. But I can't help that my body moves like that! Sometimes I try to, I tense up my hips to try and make them sway less, but I don't know if it works. Then I just try to count red things that I see around me, like my therapist told me. That helps a little... Honestly, I'm self-conscious in general that some things I do (say, streching while at the gym) might look to someone like I'm trying to be sexy. Not that anyone since middle school has actually said such a thing to me. This is probably just paranoia... Also I'm just scared of being viewed in a sexy way.

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  • And here I am,always trying to move my hips while walking because I'm afraid of looking not feminine enough. I wish people could just trade their problems

  • Why are you scared of looking sexy? Why are you scared of someone thinking you look nice?

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I really hate my mom. If only i'm not a student and i have a job, i would build my own home and living alone without her. She's always force me to do what she wants, all of it must decided by her, since i'm in kindergarten until now which is im 20. I was so happy when i could go for college in out of my town. For the first time i could feel, hangout with my friends at night, doing event until midnight, and im sure if i'm still living with mom for college, i wouldn't have a chance to do that thing. I would spent my young age with those rules of my mom which is so bored. I will have no experience. She doesn't allow me to doing that kind of thing, she thought it's just wasting of time. But, she's always acting kind to all of my friends, they're think my mom is cool although everytime i ask her permission to hangout with my bestfriends when i'm at home, it's so difficult. She would blame my friends that i've always wants to go outside. She thinks because of my friends i'm becoming a bad kid. Pfft, it's funny, just because i'm not thinking like her, she said that. She never appreciate me when i got 1st ranking in class, or when i do the right thing. But she always noticed me blamed me when i have my grades down, or i make a mistake. She also says "i better didn't have a kid like you". So do i, i better didnt live if everything that i've done always not enough for you. If suicide is not a sin, i would do that. This is sucks. I want finish my study early. So, i'm not depend on her anymore.

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  • Can be writen by myself :/ i know the feeling

  • You'll get away from her soon enough. Hang in there.

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this has been on my mind for as long as i remember (a bit tmi) but i cant shake over the fact that some people uses ONLY toilet paper to wipe their ass, like how?? i feel like that just takes so much time as opposed to just use a toilet spray hose, it's faster it's convenient and it actually leaves you CLEAN. i went to france once and i was actually traumatised how they just used toilet papers, at least turkey had a bidet, thank god cause i was this close to not going because i thought they havent. my friend had the exact same problem when studying abroad, she couldn't stand just using papers so she carries plastic water bottles with the pull push cap around everywhere she goes. honestly, the toilets are actually huge factors to me when travelling, if they dont have a spray or at least a bidet, im not going

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  • Being sprayed with water is only marginally better. People love to go 'if you got poop on yoor arm would just wipe it off and decide its clean?!' like no, but spraying water on it wouldn't make it clean either. You'd need soap for that. I don't see anyone soaping their rectum after each poop.

  • I don't use water simply because it feels uncomfortable... Maybe it WOULD be more hygienic to, but using just paper hasn't caused any problems like infections. I do make sure to wipe until I see no dirt on the paper, it doesn't take very long.

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So Im a guy and my ex boyfriend dated me for 3 months, which I know isn't a long time but he made everything happen so quick and I let it happen quick because I never get the chance to date. He would tell me how much he loved me and say so many good things about me. Okay so basically near the last month he didn't talk to me as much and AT SCHOOL during lunch when we were in the same building he let a senior give him a bj in the bathroom and then he tells me we were FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS. A week later he told my friends that I gave him a bj and sucked at it when I didn't even give him one. I still hangout with him and he thinks that he didn't cheat on me.

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  • well prepare for that for a lifetime thats how it is in the gay world

  • That's awful... I'm sorry that happened to you.

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