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I have almost nothing in my life to show for. If it wasn't for my mother I'd be living in the street. I have depression an anxiety and it's so bad that I can't get a job, friends or gf. I'm two and half yrs of becoming a 40 yrs old virgin. I'm fat, diabetic, had cancer 6 yrs ago. Because of the last one I've became very angry and temperamental that I pissed off all of my now ex friends.

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  • If there one thing I can give advice about - make friends before you to to get a girlfriend. Social skills are a bare necessity of a romantic relationship.

  • Have you tried to do anything about it since last time you posted?

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Question for White girls: Would you be open to dating a half-Asian boy? I frequently see unconfident Hapa guys who say that they just aren't the type for most White girls who make up the majority of their school. Just be honest. Don't worry about being called racist. It's anonymous and this is just subjective taste. The reason I'm asking is my son. I'm kinda worried about when he gets older. He 50% Northern European and 50% Filipino. Think of the actor who played the Werewolf in Twilight. That's about how he looks.

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  • I dont think its about that, what home life does he have, like cultural wise.

  • damn I wish any boy at my school looked like Taylor Lautner with even half his personality

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I really want the boys feel the pain of girl's period. EVERY MONTH!!!! 😭🔪🔪🔪🔪

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  • Science says men have a lower pain tolerance than women, so if they are in pain it's bad. Also if you think about it, I think it's a trade off either you get pain once a month as a woman or are at risk for painfully jostling your nuts 24/7 as a man.

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So, I am into financial domination. I know i need to stop. But, I cannot. I'm being drained by a beautiful woman online. She Is taking all my money. She tells me to pull my underwear down to my ankles, and stroke and charges me $2.99 a minute. I know I have a problem and had to tell someone.

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  • ...Why do YOU pay HER to jack yourself off? She's not even doing it for you? I mean do what you want I guess but most findom girls put out SOMETHING, photos or something.

  • This needs to stop, dude. You can't afford this crap.

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I've came out to my parents about being bisexual, but they don't trust me going to sleepovers anymore. And I feel like if I tell them about my almost 4 month relationship with my girlfriend they're going to punish me in some way. Even my girlfriend tells me not to tell my parents that she'll be at the sleepover, just because she thinks that I won't be able to come , which has happened before. So I have come up with a secret identity for my girlfriend. I named "him" Matthew, I only told my parents that I liked "him" and they encourage me to do tell or do something to "him".I might tell my parents this summer because we'll be out of state far away from my girlfriend. :/

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  • Wait, so... what exactly is the problem here? This confession is kind of scattered. Is the problem telling them that you have a gf? They already know you're bi and don't let you go to sleepovers, so... what's the point in not telling them? (I'm also bi but I'm not sure I understand this confession.)

  • They know you're in a relationship but think you're going to fool around with someone at a sleepover? They should trust you more.

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Just wondering though, for real fubus, the ones who are really great friends with each other, do you turn into a fubu because you like them physically?, I mean, it is physical right? Means you are attracted to each other? And is it possible to turn into a real relationship.

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  • In a fwb arrangement 18 months now. Fell in love. It's not reciprocated but I kinda expected that. We're very good friends and that's the really important part imo.

  • I hate the term fubu

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HELP. so my boyfriend constantly claims he has a small penis because "every" girl hes ever dated has said so in the past and tells me I'm going to eventually leave him for someone bigger. usually insinuating a black guy. Then today I found out he watches BBC porn... is this all because hes insecure and wishes that's what he had? I'm so confused.

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  • Dick size is a very huge unsolved problem for men. I have a small dick and i don't like to watch porn where guys have small dicks. Whenever i see a guy with a nice dick i genuinely feel happy for him. There's all the group talks you have where guys often talk about their great penis or where girls talk about how they love a nice penis and i just have to sit there listening and smiling. It sucks and my confidence reaches low levels.

  • My ex constantly jokes about his 'small dick' even though his penis is of very average size. He's not huge but really he isn't small and idk what he expects of dicks? But sounds like your bf watches BBC porn because he either A. gets off on the insecurity/inferiority, or B. just fantasizes that he had that big of a dick. Maybe have a talk with him and tell him that big dicks are actually kind of the worst (because this is true, although to each their own I guess) and you love him for him, every part of him, and that you'd love him even if he had no dick at all. Also maybe point out that he's going to drive you away with the constant self deprecation and negativity before his dick size ever will.

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I don't feel anything when having sex, no clitoral, no vaginal or anal feeling, it's because I was born with sexual dysfunction. I get really really depressed after trying masturbation. So I don't do it anymore.. I'm much more happier not ever trying it. But sometimes, I get to hear people talking about how good sex was and I'm completely clueless how it feels and I feel very excluded.. Unhuman like... And I go back to the feeling of depression...

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  • Sex doesn't make you human. Let me tell you something- you're not missing out on much. I mean, sure, it feels good, I guess, but it feels good like a hot bath does, or like a back massage. It's not wild pleasure like porn makes it out to be. It's just enjoyable. The part that make sex fun is being intimate with your partner and sharing that connection and closeness. And you don't have to actually have sex to experience that bond, either. There are tons of asexuals out there still enjoying life and love.

  • Are you on any medication? I have heard people on SSRIs and/or hormonal birth control feel similar.

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This is more of a "today I f****d up" kind of thing, though it happened yesterday. My wife and I were at the pool, loads of people around. At one point I let my mind wander, and so did my eyes. Apparently I was "staring" at some woman's bottoms and my wife got mad. The thing is I was really zoned out, I wasn't even looking at whoever was there. *sigh*

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  • Just say you just looking at twinglobes, it's nothing special.

  • I do the same thing sometimes... just space out, not really looking at anything, but it looks like I'm staring intently. Your wife is the one with a problem if she really got upset over that- it shows that she's insecure and afraid you'll leave her for someone 'better'. Any normal, healthy person should be able to handle their partner looking at someone. It's just looking.

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Every time I try to masturbate to sexy pictures of my partner, I can't do it. Even if I'm in a relationship with them and I know they masturbate to my pictures, I feel guilty or creepy doing it somehow. I can't get off to porn either. I just imagine scenarios in my head. And the weird thing about this is I can masturbate thinking about my partners, just not when I'm looking at a picture.

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  • I have the same kind of weird feeling. Personally, porn is fine with me because since the actors are doing what they can to entertain viewers, but fantasizing about people I know in real life or celebrities feels creepy to me. The one thing I absolutely CANNOT do is place myself in fantasies whatsoever. I need to visualize everything from a third person point of view or I imagine my own made up characters or stories to go along with it. So no worries, everybody has their own way to get off.

  • I also find it weird to masturbate to pictures of my partner. I'm turned on by pictures of other people, I'm turned on by thoughts of my partner and my partner himself, but pictures... I have no idea why. I can relate to you saying it feels creepy somehow. You're not weird.

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