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I don't understand why so many people hate Valentine's day for so - in my eyes - stupid reasons. "It's just a holiday fabricated by the industry to sell flowers and chocolate" so what? Who forces you to buy something? "I don't think that there should be only one day a year to show your partner that you love them" Which law was that again that states that you're only allowed to be affectionate to your partner on Valentine's day? Do you also only show your friends that you like them on their birthdays? Do you hate your mom every day instead of mother's day? "I don't like this American bullshit" again, nobody forces you to celebrate it, so why spoil it for everyone who wants to? I have nothing against people who simply don't like it and say that when they're asked, but I despise those who take every opportunity to tell everyone that Valentine's day is shit, especially after someone was visibly excited about it. I feel that people do it just to seem cool and smarter than anyone else because they "don't fall for the trap". As if making someone happy on a special day is bad.

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  • You sound like a bitch

  • 100% agreed. I am myself on a country that does not usually celebrate Valentine's day, but in recent years it has become a bit of "a thing" and I honestly DESPISE anyone who tries to make others feel bad for buying a loved one a gift or something similar. Fuck those people. I myself bought my SO a nice dinner out, and we had a blast.

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Give me the biggest word you got and it's definition

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  • Bum. Meaning 'anus', 'rectum', 'poo tunnel' or 'gay mans vagina'. Example - "Steve thought it to be a good idea to insert his new tennis racquet into his bum.'

  • Humuhumunukunukuapuaa the state fish of Hawaii.

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What makes a man a man? Do you think its based on facts or opinions?

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  • To be a man you must have honor. Honor and a penis. - Crayon Shin-chan.

  • Well you should phrase your question a bit more specific, because my answer to that would be 'having a penis', but I don't think that's what you're going for

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What's with the sudden hatred towards hate? Hate is an emotion like any other. Hate has its place and I feel the hatred towards hate is totally unjustified and should stop. Haterphobes and haterphobic behaviour has no place in this current year of 2019. Let us chant; "It's just hate! Do not fear! Haterphobes aren't welcome here!" Yay #socialjustice

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  • Hate is a feeling, it comes and goes, but things are different when because of your hatred, you are hurting others, mentally or physically.

  • Sure, let people please say that they hate pineapple pizza or the traffic at 7 am. Let Betty hate Susan for sleeping with her boyfriend. But if you defend people who hate other people for their skin colour or sexuality, then you're kind of contributing to innocent people being oppressed, excluded and murdered. Hate, REAL hate, isn't just a funny little emotion, it leads to actions. It leads to millions of people dying in concentration camps. It leads to little Tommy being kicked in the face until he ends up in a coma because he wore a rainbow on his shirt. It could lead to your very own family being blown up in a mall because some ISIS guy hates western society. I don't know what exactly your post was pointing at, and maybe you just mean that people should allow others to hate pineapple pizzas, but I Won't agree to the general statement that hate is an innocent little emotion that should be embraced.

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I think "casual relationships" are pointless. I just see them as a waste of time. People just using each other for sex instead of putting that effort into actually finding a partner seems really stupid and shallow. Nobody I know agrees with me. Everyone is just fine with the idea of casually making yourself that vulnerable to somebody, everyone's just totally fine with being that close and intimate with someone they have no feelings for. But maybe I'm just too emotional. Maybe I just don't need sex like normal people seem to. I just hate feeling alone on this.

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  • I'm with you 100%. My own mother ridiculed me when I told her this same thing. Well now I've been married for 10 years and she is desperately seeking a 60 year old man to "date" after her on again off again bf of 20 years left her again.

  • Well you have to understand that everyone is different. You're neither right nor wrong with your opinion. This is something you feel and decide for yourself, and just because you feel like this doesn't mean everyone who doesn't is doing it wrong. I can't find a really good metaphor for this, but maybe you can compare it to a project at school and being or not being a perfectionist. If a perfectionist is assigned a project, they want to do it either perfectly or they feel like it's not worth doing at all. They're the ones who get either a grade 1 or 6 every time. Then there are the students who are totally casual, they still do their best but they won't let a school project interfere with their personal life. If they know they won't be able to do it right, they'll do it just as they can at the moment and are fine with getting a grade 3 or 4. See, the first student may get perfect results, But he also may end up with no result at all. The second one will have a lot of poor results, but this doesn't mean he can't be perfect on another project. I don't mean to say that you're doing poorly in your love life, just that you obviously don't want to get poor results just to get results at all. Which is fine. But it's not for everyone.

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Taking job interview calls from my cubicle this week. Dick move? Maybe. But there are three types of people in this world. Dicks, pussies, and assholes. I'm done being a pussy. Fuck these assholes.

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  • people who are dicks are the same as people who are assholes in my book

  • hahaha i know where dats from

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So my parents just sat me down and told me that I'm not allowed to cook food for myself every day anymore, because of the energy bill. They also told me that I should limit the time I take while showering. I have long hair, so it takes me more than two minutes, which is unacceptable. They also always turn down the heat in my room because my wish to live in a room that's more than 16 °C is excessive, apparently. All that comes from my parents. The people who leave the lights on in every room of the house the whole evening while not leaving the couch once. The people who always have either TV or radio running when they're in entirely different rooms. The people who forced me to cook for myself in the first place because they won't make food that I can or want to eat. The ones who turn up the heat in the living room 24/7 because they want it to be nice and cosy for the 2 hours a day they spend there. I'm beginning to suspect that they don't really like me.

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  • I don't think it's that they don't like you, I think they're just selfish and put their wants above your needs.

  • Op here, I forgot to mention that I do pay them rent (which is my child support money, or whatever you call it in English) which is enough to cover all the bills.

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I feel like I am different from everyone else. I can't find anyone with the same opinions that I have. I am 20 and I miss how the world used to be a few years ago.I miss the social facebook games why doesn't anyone play them anymore?, I miss when printed magazines were still popular, I miss msn and its fun way to chats, I miss when outings were still simple and fun, not fucking nightclubs or very expensive restaurants, I miss when there were challenges and competitions, I miss social games like spin the bottle and truth or dare,I miss when collecting coins and stamps was still a thing. Why am I the only one in this large world who misses these amazing things, and WHY DO PEOPLE MAKE ME FEEL WEIRD AND JUDGE ME WHEN I TELL THEM I MISS THESE THINGS? I can't fit in in the current way of life where all what people around think about is clubbing,dogs,gym and food. I feel very bored, very lonely and very depressed. am I the only one in this huge world who misses the things above? is there any other person like me?

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  • People still play Facebook games, I'm always attacked by notifications to join them. I work retail and we still sell printed magazines and newspapers, if they weren't demanded we would've stopped supplying them. True: I miss MSN, and nudging people on it lol. Nightclubs are actually not popular anymore, and most young people can't afford fancy restaurants, they opt for hikes, little cool coffee shops or restaurants with a welcoming cute theme. Lots of kids are into competition and challenges, actually social media made that even more popular. Maybe it's a cultural thing in your country, but where I come from those nice things are still relevant and actually getting popular, people are even geeking over those old Nokia phones and flip phones.

  • You are not the only one. I don't miss the same things you do, But I miss a lot of similar things. But I don't want to talk about it. It just makes me sad thinking about all this stuff, because it won't come back. Even if it does come back, it won't be the same, so there's no point in pulling yourself down over it. Maybe that's why you never meet anyone who thinks like you do. Maybe people don't want to think about it, Maybe they're better at leaving things behind. Either way, I think you should stop living in the past, because it's not going to come back.

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Girls do not need to be in boy scouts and vice versa. That’s why there are girl scouts. If there’s a problem with what the girls are learning then change the curriculum.

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  • Hot take: Men and women are not identical and there is nothing wrong with sisterhood and brotherhood orgs that teach different things.

  • I think it's weird, in my country "scouts" were always mixed and it was never an issue

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I feel like relationships aren't my thing, i don't hate it but i hate this whole idea of being committed, not the part where you have to be loyal mind you, it actually takes nothing to be loyal but it takes a lot to have to talk to them every single day or meet up with them every single day or facetime or call or be with them every single day. I don't even do that to my best friends so how the hell am i supposed to do that in a relationship. It just sounds like a lot of work. Sometimes (most times) i like to be left alone so thinking about having a boyfriend is out of the question. Idk maybe it's just me, maybe i haven't found 'the one' yet, not going to lie and say im looking forward to it though, but i won't be mad if they could change my commitment issues.

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  • I totally feel the same way! Relationships have always been scary for me, and I've never really understood how people don't get sick of each other. But I guess it's like another commenter said, we live with our families for a while and still have a life of our own, which means that doesn't have to change in a relationship. I just know I can't see it that way naturally cause I've never actually experienced a legit relationship.

  • Time will come, or not. I've been disgusted with idea myself because I just wanted to be free and go and stand wherever I want to without any restrictions. It's only once I found someone equally non demanding I wanted to give it a try again. Took a while but its worth ut if you find someone who equally dislikes being restricted in any way.

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