I am man 46yo, I like women, but the most erotic fantasy for me would be to kiss the whole body of a beautiful teenager, love him, and kiss and suck his dick. only the thought of it....it drives me crazy
I'm now going to say something that many people will hate: I think that in many cases of abuse or assault, it's a little bit the victim's fault. And no, I'm not talking about "her short skirt means she's asking for it" or "if she talks to other guys, her boyfriend is allowed to hit her". I am also not saying that the act of assaulting or abusing is in any form okay. But when a partner is abusing you and you don't leave, or if you go to a crowded club and then get traumatized when a guy touches your ass (touching, not groping), I think you're partly to blame. I know that a lot of people don't leave their abusive partner because they're mentally ill, or because they're too afraid of a possible revenge. I know that it can be frightening to have a guy grope your body and don't stop. But I've also been abused by my partner. And I knew that I could leave, I just didn't, because I was too LAZY. Too lazy to live on my own again, to look for a new partner. I was totally to blame for my misery. I've also been touched on the ass in clubs (either while pressing myself past people or because guys tried to dance with me). If I wouldn't want anyone to do that, I can't go to crowded places, period. Also, some stories of rape could be prevented by saying no. If you're too drunk to say no, then you made a big mistake a couple of drinks ago, when you decided to have this drink. (Again: the guy is still a rapist. He's still to be punished. You're still not asking for it. I still think it's horrible. But it's a little bit like when someone dies by climbing a mountain without security ropes. It's sad, but you still feel like saying "it's kinda your fault"). Feel free to tell me why I'm wrong with my opinion, let it be with a story of your own or with some other sort of argument.
I think men should start a #metoo thing where they talk about the time a woman falsely accused them of rape or assault. This is a thing that also happens but most people don't care because men are still often not allowed to be victims.
my mate's sister allowed me to take a photo of her naked on my phone
I have a crush on someone despite being in a relationship. I truly love my boyfriend, and I know that the feelings I have towards my crush aren't "real". It's more like a celebrity crush - I think he's extremely attractive and I am also extremely attracted to his character, but I know that I could never be with him or truly love him and that my attraction to him is basically only of a sexual nature. I am not afraid I'll cheat, but it still kills me. It's so stressful to long after something that you can't have, to have feelings you shouldn't have, and to have to hide it. I feel like a smoker who's in the process of quitting and constantly sees people smoke cigarettes.
I want my wife to be a slut! Sleep around, watch her get gangbanged. Would be so hot. Don’t think I can convince her.
when i was a kid, might have been 8 or 9 , one or two friends of mine were coming to my house in the afternoon to play, I would close the door of my bedroom, and I'd tell them to take their clothes off, and I'd tell them to play with their penis, or stand one next to each other and make their penis touch one another. now, thinking about it , my mom must have known for sure what we were doing, and she never interfered, letting me experiment my first sexuality curiosities. I remember it being a game we were playing quite a lot.
I want to cut my throat, not to kill myself but because I want to feel it, but if I did people would see the marks. So I settle on cutting the side of my hip instead since it's covered by my underwear.
My stance on multiculturalism: Part II. First off: I think race is a dumb-ass concept that we should be beyond of (which we were in western europe), and you're foolish if you define yourself by your race. I think Integration is the way to go, for multiculturalism just causes trouble, in lack of a better word. If you wanna live out your culture, go or stay where it already is established. To me, it's basic logic: If I would migrate somewhere, I would try to integrate into the local society instead of trying to make my own, independant thing and then calling everyone racist that thinks that's not the way to go and doesn't accept that. I especially can't get that with refugees, who flee from a shitty hellhole and then try to establish a junior-equivalent of what lead to the making of the hellhole. But, I'm open to good arguments, so try to confince me otherwise.
Since we took in refugees in our country, not only are there a lot of stories about failed or not failed terrorist attacks. There are now areas in my city in which you shouldn't go at night - which wasn't the case some years ago. There are more and more street fights, more vandalism. Some years ago, when I went out clubbing, it was chill and cool, but now I haven't had one single night of going out without any incidents like seeing someone being beat up, being molested by arab men, having to avoid this certain area, witnessing vandalism taking place or whatnot. My mom works in a mall and says that the number of shop lifters increased, and that most of them are foreigners. All that can't be a coincidence. And all this is happening, even though the media is silent about it. Yes, most refugees are poor people who had to flee from death and war and are happy to be here and alive. But I still don't think that we should save those people if it means to lead us into chaos, destruction and death. There must be other options.