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I'm graduating college in four months and I have absolutely no fucking idea what I'm going to do with myself after. It's constantly in the back of my mind and it scares the shit out of me in all honesty.

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  • Get a job?

  • I felt that same way 3 semesters in and dropped out because of the pressure. I'm doing okay now. Try not to stress too much about what happens afterwards. Things have a way of working out.

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I'm the last of my friends to be a virgin (literally, I think I'm the only one in my group and we're all in our early 20's), and I'm honestly starting to believe it's never going to happen. I feel so awkward about it as well. Like, I know teenagers more sexually experienced than myself. And y'all don't even understand how insanely sexually frustrated I am. I just want to get it over with already.

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  • Don't feel bad. I was 24 and I'm glad I waited. My wife waited too (21). It made us closer. Sex does NOT change you or make you an adult. Of course none of my friends knew. I had a reputation of being a Chad and getting numbers all the time. I just didn't follow through because I didn't find the one I really wanted yet.

  • Being a virgin isn't a big deal... Who cares if your friends aren't? Who cares how much experience you have? Live your life at your own pace. I get the sexual frustration part- I didn't lose my virginity until my 20s either, and the few times I've had sex, the sex wasn't even good and I ended up masturbating afterward. But it'll happen when it's meant to happen. You'll get there. It's really not all that great anyways to tell the truth, it's fun for a few minutes and then it's like '...well now what?'

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My sister is such a bitch. She acts nice in front of people. But she always criticizes everything. She gets mad over petty things. She always finds me to pour her heart out but when i go to her she blames me for everything. She body shames me everyday. She gives me money and brings it up later. She’s nice for a second and the next second, she’s mad.

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  • Sounds you need to slowly remove her from your life a bit... You don't need that toxicity.

  • Are you my wife? That's exactly the relationship between her and her sister

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Taking job interview calls from my cubicle this week. Dick move? Maybe. But there are three types of people in this world. Dicks, pussies, and assholes. I'm done being a pussy. Fuck these assholes.

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  • people who are dicks are the same as people who are assholes in my book

  • hahaha i know where dats from

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I'm on my first long term relationship, we've been together for about a year and a half. The thing is that he is not doing some little things that he used to do like he used to call me every night to talk about our days and say good night. I don't know if this is the normal course of relationships or if I'm not that interesting anymore or if it's cause he's too tired but I miss those things. And every time I want to bring it up I feel over dramatic. Idk what to do.

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  • Just talk to him. Ask him why he doesn't do it anymore. You should be able to talk to your partner openly about how you feel. The thing is, most people do those things in the beginning of a relationship because they feel the need to draw you in. Once they feel like they've got you, they get... comfortable. It's like the thing where girls will stop shaving their legs all the time. But it's okay to want to feel wanted, and if him doing something as simple as calling you every day does that, then don't be afraid to ask.

  • I think everyone will miss those feeling, it's like you are important in someone life, like you mean something to him, and often couples forget doing that, maybe life tore them down, or those special thing feel mundane or ....

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So my parents just sat me down and told me that I'm not allowed to cook food for myself every day anymore, because of the energy bill. They also told me that I should limit the time I take while showering. I have long hair, so it takes me more than two minutes, which is unacceptable. They also always turn down the heat in my room because my wish to live in a room that's more than 16 °C is excessive, apparently. All that comes from my parents. The people who leave the lights on in every room of the house the whole evening while not leaving the couch once. The people who always have either TV or radio running when they're in entirely different rooms. The people who forced me to cook for myself in the first place because they won't make food that I can or want to eat. The ones who turn up the heat in the living room 24/7 because they want it to be nice and cosy for the 2 hours a day they spend there. I'm beginning to suspect that they don't really like me.

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  • I don't think it's that they don't like you, I think they're just selfish and put their wants above your needs.

  • Op here, I forgot to mention that I do pay them rent (which is my child support money, or whatever you call it in English) which is enough to cover all the bills.

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Is it consider cheating if your bf/gf/husband/wife have virtual sex with strangers? I mean like sexting, video call, and all. Is it cheating?

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  • It's cheating if your partner didn't explicitly tell you that they're okay with it.

  • Cheating is never about the action but about consent. Both of you should be on the same page. If someone doesn't know about it it's cheating. If someone doesn't agree with it it's cheating. Want to do it anyway? Think the other person is wrong for it? Well then you always just step out.

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Is it okay to read kids chapterbooks and ya stuff as an adult?

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  • Totally. I also only read kids or ya. I simply don't like adult literature, all I've read are so stiff and lifeless and wannabe smart, it doesn't really make me want to read more.

  • Absolutely! Read whatever makes you happy :) The whole point of books is to either teach or entertain. As long as it's doing one of those things, it doesn't matter who it was intended for

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I hate falling for a guy who is cold and bold... yet i was blind to his attitude. ..

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I grew up in the US and I hated it there. It's so hard to make friends.. for introverts... I'm always lonely and depressed and life is very demanding. When I moved in the Philippines, it was easy to connect with people "in person". Yeah the country can be unsafe, and can be damn humid but I love the people here. The people that I met somehow cured my depression. Yeah bad health care as well but I love it here! I love the food, the culture, events, and I can live by the limitations of that from the first world country. I dont really care what my parents think, I live my Filipino heritage and their social connection. Something considered awkward when I was in the US.

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  • Philippines is great if you understand the people. Better since Duterte came along. More infrastructure and you can walk at night in Davao. Also Penong's is the best restaurant ever.

  • If it mmakes you happy, then it’s the right thing for you. Screw what everyone else says

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