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I've already come on here a few times complaining about how much I hate my job and my manager because it's driving me insane. I've thought about quitting so many times, but I don't have a backup if I do and finding a job is so fucking hard. Nevertheless, I'm thinking about finally just doing it. Fuck if I'll be broke after, I rather be broke than putting up with all that bullshit. I've put off leaving long enough, and it's just getting more and more unbearable as time goes on.

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  • Try searching for a job before you quit. At least get yourself out there before you fully quit your job if you don't wait until you're hired somewhere else. That said, best of luck to you, mate.

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My finance wants kids, but I don't. I now have to decide whether I one day will agree to have kids, or the marriage is not gonna happen. I have no idea what to do. I don't want to lose the love of my life - that's the very selfish reason for why I would actually agree to have a child. But from a moral point of few, I think this is a very wrong reason for bringing a life into this world. On the other hand, everyone I've talked to about it (who, I fairly have to say, all are much too keen to become grandparents or uncles to be unbiased) says that it won't matter, because once I'm holding the baby in my arms, I won't care whether I initially wanted it or not. I'm lost. Also, what if I say no and in a few years suddenly want it, and then I regret breaking up?

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  • The thing is, you might change your mind, you might not. I broke up with my girlfriend a long time ago because I knew we could physically never have children (I'm a girl) and that she didn't even really want kids, so adoption was out of the question. There were other factors that led to us breaking up, but kids was a big one. Now she kinda wants kids, but we've both moved on. It hurts. But ultimately, life goes on, and it's probably for the better that we broke up.

  • It's a big decision and they shouldn't force you, instead they can just leave if they don't like it. Same too you, if you don't want that pressure maybe tht says something about your relationship. It feels very difficult, I know that. But try to make the conflict very black and white, factual. And then add emotion into the equation after you've through of it as rational as possible. Do your feelings overpower over whatever the facts may mean? And don't forget... A child is a life of its own, they don't decide to be put in this world, you do, so consider that.

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Are there normal women who WANT to have babies anymore? My friends and I were discussing odd women who call themselves "Dog Moms." They claim they are happy but the dog is clearly a substitute for a child. Stroller and all. Lady, if you weren't mounted by Scooby Doo, and pushed this thing out, that isn't your "Furbaby." Then it came up on the news that a Swedish minister was calling Hungarians Nazis Because of a policy to make it cheaper & more accessible to have children. Saying "Women fought to free themselves of this." Taken alone I would assume it's just crazy cat-lady talk. Sour grapes. I recall in Middle School girls would call me up and say, "I want to have your baby." Sex was secondary, a baby was priority #1. Did I miss a memo? Don't try to tell me your career is so "fulfilling." I'm typing this at work because corporate drudgery is meaningless and unfulfilling.

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  • I hope no one has your baby, you sound like a prick. Yes, some women prefer pets to children. They call them their 'furbabies' because they love them like children, they're part of the family- but they're not as expensive and not as much trouble as kids. Pets are, in a sense, children. And women don't have to pop out babies to have fulfilling lives. Having kids is a very big and personal decision. It's expensive, it's difficult, many women have health issues that prevent it- Some people also just don't want to pass on mental illness/physical genetic issues. Why are you so pissed that not everyone wants to have kids? There are too many kids out there as it is, why don't you adopt?

  • Whatever is fulfilling is very individual. In the end no one wants to have lives uselessly and that's why we leave things behind, a legacy. And to every person a legacy can be a different thing. I don't need one specific thing to be happy, It doesn't have to be a child, or a career, or anything else I leavebehind. But one of those things will be. Saying only a child can fill a void is somewhat unhealthy, it's near impossible to be happy with another life if you don't love your own. Many women even get depressed having children, fearing they themselves lose meaning. Whereas others may find having children the most rewarding in their lives. But don't forget, if you are in a corporate world you only see corporate women, there are family women out there, with their families. Your perspective is never complete and there is always more to the world. And just because something seems a certain way to you, doesn't make it so.

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Being someone who doesn't drink alcohol you constantly get asked why but not accepting the answer, people try to pressure you into drinking over and over, make fun of you, make it their little game to get you to drink tonight. But try reversing the whole thing, ask people why they drink, tell them with every drink they get that they shouldn't, make it your little game to pressure everyone into not drinking... things escalate pretty quickly. It was a fun family party for me, though I'm now in a mild fighting state with some distant relatives

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I missed the feeling of having a boyfriend. It's been 7 years since the last time I'm in a relationship. Wow. Even me shocked.

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I don't dress to impress guys. I dress to impress myself....so that I can impress them with my confidence. Learning to love myself here :)

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  • Awesome!

  • As I always say, you do you boo. It's good to see a positive post on here! Keep loving yourself, it's the most important person you'll ever love.

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I confess that even now, after all these years, I still love the train wreck that is Twilight. I know it's not exactly the pinnacle of great writing, but I love it anyway.

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  • It's actually among my favourites too. I love the world and the flaws are overlookable for me. Most people just hate it because hating it is popular

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I was in my professor's office to ask for a question about chemistry. In a civil conversation, he gave out a good analogy but came out very wrong ( I can't say the actual topic since it was chemistry specific...) but his analogy was talking about nails and twisting it in a metal hole and how it was about twisting and pushing and squeezing and etc. and putting nails in a wrong hole or something. His gestures came out wrong as well and he noticed it too.. I think That was the day before valentine's day which got even more awkward.. He laughed a bit but I pretend I'm innocent and didn't mind it but really in my mind I was laughing so hard! I was about to express my cracked up laughter. But it's kinda uncomfortable as well because he's a dude and I'm a girl and I'm actually kinda conservative and that was weird for me but it was funny.. Man that office help just switched from chemistry to sex. ed all of a sudden but now at least I won't forget it.

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He loved me at the point where I was not confident with myself. I love him now, at the point where he's tired of waiting on me.

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It feels if I've been dead for the last 6 months.

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  • You have. It's me, uncle Morty. You have to head toward the light...

  • How so?

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