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I wish my boyfriend would understand that I don't want to tell him explicitly what I want for my birthday or that I want him to bring me flowers or my favourite cookies every now and then, because I don't want him to buy me things to get things for free- I want him to give me those things to show me that he thinks of me on his way home, that he sees something and thinks "She would like that" and then can't wait to see the smile on my face. I want him to know me and listen to me when I talk about something I want. But how can I make him know this without actually saying this - as saying it would totally defeat the purpose, because then I couldn't enjoy any flower he brings home because I'd just think he did it for the wrong reasons?

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  • You can tell him that. Just don't mention specifically flowers or whatever. Just say something like 'the reason I don't like asking for things is because I don't want to just feel like I'm asking you to buy me stuff like a kid asking their mom for toys. It would just be nice to know you think of me, that you want to surprise me every now and then, that you pay attention when I talk about things I like, because I do all that for you.' But the other person has a point, some people just don't show their love that way. He wants to get you thinks he is CERTAIN you want/need, so he asks you. And there's nothing wrong with that, really. He just wants to be sure you'll like it.

  • He can't read your mind, friend. He will never be able to read your goddamn mind. Tell him what you like or accept that he's not the gifting kind. There's an interesting book on "types of love" or something like that. There are people who enjoy simple hand made gifts, others who like shiny stuff, then there are those who like actions, attitudes etc. I'd bet your boyfriend is the action type, and that does not mean he doesn't love you.

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Sometimes I think "What I would tell myself when I was younger to talk myself out of suicide?" What moment would I show myself to make me untie the noose and think, this is worth powering through. This weekend I found it. My daughter came out of the tub with wet hair and handed me a brush. Rushed excitedly to my chair, turned her back to it and closed her eyes. Seeing the smile in her face as I brushed her hair is legit one of the greatest feelings in the history of the world. This was worth everything.

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So me and this Black guy at work found out we were both half Jewish and we started exchanging really bad Jew jokes. It's become a running gag. "I'm a Black Jew, so they put me in the back of the oven.", "The doors on the gas chamber were coin operated and no one in my family was willing to pay up.", "Always haggle him down before you steal his bike. If it's under $800 it's not grand theft. I don't need a 3rd strike." Well I was googling myself in preparation for job interviews and one listed nickname was "shekelmancer" I'm like, oh shit. Even though my social media is anonymous, I must have used an email linked to my name to sign up! Well, this is gonna be an awkward interview.

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So this strange little (woman?) At my office with blue hair and a nose ring was saying how much "cooler" she was than my buddy because he wears (boring) suit. I couldn't help thinking back to when I was in a punk band. Years ago an old bandmate had just got off tour with Warped and we were discussing how our new band would dress on stage. He was wearing emo skinny jeans to let you know how long ago this is. We all came to the conclusion that pierced noses and dyed hair was so retro we would be a laughing stock. Like the people we're trying to flip off must be dead by now. Most of us had sleeve tats and gauges at that point. It was already passe. I just can't help thinking this woman fell through a time warp. Like maybe her email address ends in @aol.com?

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  • Colorful hair and piercings are definitely still popular, but more among LGBT folks than emo kids.

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I currently hate my work so much that I cry literally every day. I don't know how to make it through the next hour, let alone next few months. The thing is, I'll only be here for the next few months. Then I'll be referred to the workplace I actually want to work at, so it wouldn't make any sense to quit. I already tried everything, I tried negotiating with my boss, tried to talk to my co-workers about the things that are bugging me, but there's no point. Things are as they are. I can't even take my holiday leave or a sick leave during those months, because then I'd risk losing the position. I have to sit through it. Somehow.

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  • You can do it. It'll only be a few months, then you never have to do it again. You can do this.

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My brother likes pranking my cat. But this time it's a totally different level. He cut off her whiskers. Cat whiskers never grows back and I'm sooo pissed off at him that I wanna sue him for doing that. It was just stupid I think. Now my cat is always tired and anxious at her surroundings...

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  • Your cat will be okay after some time. Their whiskers can shed and grow back; this happens when their weight changes, because their whiskers are as long as their body is wide. So when the width of their body changes, their whiskers change. That said, she will be disoriented and nervous and probably irritable for a while until they grow back. Explain to your brother that he can't 'prank' animals, they don't understand jokes and he's just bullying (emotionally abusing) them. Maybe talk to your parents about it.

  • Cat whiskers do grow back, don't worry. Your cat will be fine

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This has been driving me crazy does anyone know the name of the puppy game Eve was playin in the 8 passengers vlog today when chad got suspended I have looked every where for the name I can’t seem to find it

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I think "casual relationships" are pointless. I just see them as a waste of time. People just using each other for sex instead of putting that effort into actually finding a partner seems really stupid and shallow. Nobody I know agrees with me. Everyone is just fine with the idea of casually making yourself that vulnerable to somebody, everyone's just totally fine with being that close and intimate with someone they have no feelings for. But maybe I'm just too emotional. Maybe I just don't need sex like normal people seem to. I just hate feeling alone on this.

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  • I'm with you 100%. My own mother ridiculed me when I told her this same thing. Well now I've been married for 10 years and she is desperately seeking a 60 year old man to "date" after her on again off again bf of 20 years left her again.

  • Well you have to understand that everyone is different. You're neither right nor wrong with your opinion. This is something you feel and decide for yourself, and just because you feel like this doesn't mean everyone who doesn't is doing it wrong. I can't find a really good metaphor for this, but maybe you can compare it to a project at school and being or not being a perfectionist. If a perfectionist is assigned a project, they want to do it either perfectly or they feel like it's not worth doing at all. They're the ones who get either a grade 1 or 6 every time. Then there are the students who are totally casual, they still do their best but they won't let a school project interfere with their personal life. If they know they won't be able to do it right, they'll do it just as they can at the moment and are fine with getting a grade 3 or 4. See, the first student may get perfect results, But he also may end up with no result at all. The second one will have a lot of poor results, but this doesn't mean he can't be perfect on another project. I don't mean to say that you're doing poorly in your love life, just that you obviously don't want to get poor results just to get results at all. Which is fine. But it's not for everyone.

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Remodeling houses and building things is so much fun. I'm doing my first project right now- adding a door to my basement- and it's just making me want to renovate more stuff. I really like it. It's so fun watching things just... slowly appear. Like beans turn into walls within seconds once you slap on the drywall. It's awesome.

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  • *beams ... Thanks autocorrect.

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Describe your music taste to me, mine is basically 2009

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  • Rock and roll and "pop" from the 60's 70's 80's and early 90's. Jazz and blues.

  • Same. I like that era from when indie bands were still a thing.

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