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I'm a 40 y/o male. So, two days ago I went to an Outback Steakhouse with my wife. We got there but we had to wait, as all tables were taken. While we were waiting my wife went to use the toilet and I called a waitress to bring us something to drink. A cute little blondie waitress (no more than 22 years old) answered, and she did a weird thing. She grabbed my hand and said something like "yeah, I'm here for you, just ask anything". OKAY, a bit weird but fine. So I asked for a few drinks and she went off. Some time passed and we got a free table and the same blond girl was waiting in that area. So she comes over, smiles and say "oh it's Mr Lopez from before, it's a pleasure to serve you again". So my wife and I sit and ask for more drinks and some steak to eat. As soon as the girl leaves my wife says to me "she's flirting with you". I replied something like "nah she's far too young, she's being nice for a good tip". Then the girl comes with our drinks and serves us with a smile. My wife was checking something on her phone, so the girl puts wife's drink in front of her, then hands my drink and gives me a wink. At this point I'm thinking "it's nothing, wife's just being weird and it is getting to me, nothing is happening at all". Some more time pass, wife goes to the toilets again and I had asked for more sauce of some sort. Blondie waitress comes and hands me the sauce, but she holds my hand while doing it, and another wink. Now I'm thinking "oh shit what's going on". Waitress leaves, wifes come back and dinner goes on normally. Now it's time to get the bill. Blondie comes back with the bill, puts it in my hand and closes my hand over the bill, covering my hand with hers. I pay for the bill and we leave. Now, I'm curious about her behavior, so I check the bill and lo and behold: there's a goddamn phone number written in there. I went and tossed the bill on the bin and never looked back.

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  • As a restaurant manager I would want to know if one of the servers was being inappropriate or creepy, imagine if a Male server was doing that with a female guest, he would've been reported immediately! Please report her to the managers.

  • I'd also report her, you could write an anonymous email or something.

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My mom can be such an asshole sometimes. But I still love her and I dont know what I would do without her.

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  • Mom's are people, they sometimes are assholes, and sometimes we have to tell them (nicely) that we don't feel good when they do certain things.

  • Same

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I do well academically. That’s the only thing I do well... getting good grades. And because of this I always try to show it and people think I’m snobbish. Yesterday I worked on a project with a girl, and she said that she feels like she can’t do most of it, and that what should does isn’t good enough. She started asking me questions about the material, and the way I was answering her questions made her feel stupid, like her questions were basic or something, especially because she is in her third year and I’m in my second. I didn’t say anything hurtful but maybe my body language and tone made her feel like that. I guess my frustration was obvious even if my words weren’t hurtful. I ended up doing most of the project, and it was obvious she felt bad about it. Why am I such a bitch!?.

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What's with the sudden hatred towards hate? Hate is an emotion like any other. Hate has its place and I feel the hatred towards hate is totally unjustified and should stop. Haterphobes and haterphobic behaviour has no place in this current year of 2019. Let us chant; "It's just hate! Do not fear! Haterphobes aren't welcome here!" Yay #socialjustice

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  • Hate is a feeling, it comes and goes, but things are different when because of your hatred, you are hurting others, mentally or physically.

  • Sure, let people please say that they hate pineapple pizza or the traffic at 7 am. Let Betty hate Susan for sleeping with her boyfriend. But if you defend people who hate other people for their skin colour or sexuality, then you're kind of contributing to innocent people being oppressed, excluded and murdered. Hate, REAL hate, isn't just a funny little emotion, it leads to actions. It leads to millions of people dying in concentration camps. It leads to little Tommy being kicked in the face until he ends up in a coma because he wore a rainbow on his shirt. It could lead to your very own family being blown up in a mall because some ISIS guy hates western society. I don't know what exactly your post was pointing at, and maybe you just mean that people should allow others to hate pineapple pizzas, but I Won't agree to the general statement that hate is an innocent little emotion that should be embraced.

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Fuck crackers and fuck the police.

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  • This is why we should live apart. Malcom X was (mostly) right. That's the tragedy of this. We need a Black majority state where Blacks can run it as they see fit like the Mormons do Utah or Natives do Oklahoma. Union is preserved and we can live in peace.

  • will do, how much do you pay?

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i have this really bad side of me that is obsesed with sexual stuff, sex talk, seductiveness ect. i feen the feeling and i love being naughty....with other men..and i have a man...i love when a man takes control of me and treats me really naughty.....then i feel so ashamed ....

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I just love him so much I want to read all his favorite books and I want to listen to all his favorite songs. When I walk through the woods behind my house I look at all the flowers and trees growing and I wonder which one he’d love the most. When I’m bored in class my mind always finds its way back to him. When he sits next to me outside on the school’s benches I want to share my lunch with him. When I wake up from a nightmare I grab my phone and look at all the pictures we’ve taken together and read all the nice things he’s texted me and listen to the voicemails he’s sent me and it makes me feel okay again. I want to hold his hands and touch his jawline and listen to his heartbeat as I fall asleep. I want to be the one who brings him a glass of water in the middle of the night and I want to be the first person to say good morning to him. I want to learn all his favorite piano pieces and play them for him whenever he wants. Every time he rings my doorbell I jump down the stairs and sprint down the hall because I’m so excited to see him. I still can’t believe we’re dating and I still can’t believe how good it’s going.

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  • Congratulations stay happy!

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I made a deal with a female friend that if I took a photo of myself naked in the street, then I could see her nude in return. She agreed. I did my end of the deal and sent her the photo with full frontal. She just laughed and said "Oh my God" followed by "you're tiny". I reminded her about it occasionally for the next few months, and she kept saying that she was unhappy about her weight and brushing it off. Eventually, she sent me a photo of herself in her underwear. I told her that the deal was full nudity. Then she just went on a rant about slippery slopes and how I shouldn't be asking for nudes. Now I feel humiliated because she has a photo of me naked in public that she can access at any time and laugh at or even share... but the thought of that turns me on. I still hope that one day I can find a nude picture of her online, so I can make fun of her the way she did me. Apparently a video does exist, but I haven't been able to find it.

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  • ladies and gentleman, whenever you feel down, just remember you are not that person. thank you and have a good night.

  • She doesn't want that micro penis getting all worked up when it has 40 plus years of loneliness ahead of it. You should be thanking her

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I just found out I wasn't running the proctor program right on my tests this semester. My 5 tests at around 90% are now worth zero. I want to cry. My GPA is ruined. My grants, my scholarships. Maybe the teacher will let me retake them?

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  • Update: he let me make it up.

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I love my girlfriend, but I find myself fantasizing about having sex with her 18 year old sister (we're 21). I would never actually do it, but I feel guilty for fantasizing

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  • As long as you don't do anything and you don't mention it to her, it's fine. I had sexual dreams about my wife's sisters, but I have never -- and would never -- make a move on them.

  • It's natural to fantasize, just don't let it get out of hand.

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