I need advice, because this is something I can't ask the people I know. A year ago, my sister (19 yo) had a "friend" (18 yo) who freeloaded at her apartment, ate her food and gave nothing in return. That girl had her own apartment but "didn't like being alone", she wasn't in school and didn't have a job either. She had mental health issues and depended on my sister emotionally as well.She constantly dragged my sister into night clubs even when my sister had early morning shifts, and the two of them would blow money on alcohol. This all took a toll on my sister, who was suffering from depression and stress from work. When our mother, our other sister and I told her to cut that girl out of her life so she could focus on her own health. My mother also gave the girl advice on how she could get help for her own situation. We all agreed that it'd be best for my sister to not see that girl again so the situation wouldn't repeat. However, my sister told me that in the past several months she actually has been hanging out with that girl. I don't know if that girl is borrowing money (without ever returning it) from my sister again, but my sister tells me that everything is fine. She also told me not to tell mom or anyone about this "so they don't worry and nag her again", but I'm honestly a little worried about her. Right now, she is depressed and no longer has a job. Should I tell my mother after all, that my sister has kept in touch with the girl who was dependent on her?
So I was fishing with some friends and I hooked what they told me was a log, but I was sure it was alive. Reeled it in to find an alligator snapping turtle the size of a dog. It's illegal to kill them, but I did anyway. It was on my land and eating our fish. They are dangerous as hell. I figured screw him.
I had unintentionally been ignoring my friends because of the hurt they unknowingly caused me. I know it’s my fault that I fall asleep in class and make a fool of my self and they are just trying to help me by advising me but the way they put it hurts me a lot. I don’t care about others but I care about their view on me bc we’re friends. I’m now struggling to reply to them and honestly, I think I just made a rift because of all the internal hurt that has been compiling in me. I didn’t want this to happen but I caused it. I’m a shitty friend for doing this. This sucks too much and I’m coward because of I’ve been phobic of closer relationships since my falling out with my one of best friends. I don’t want a repeat of that. I’m shitty and I own up to that. This may seem minor but these internal battle I have been facing for so long has made me do rash decisions. I’m sorry guys for being a coward. I’m sorry for not being enough. I’m sorry and I hope one day we’ll forgive each other because I can’t trust you guys yet, not wholly.
I can't stand seeing sex scenes on TV, and even the mention of sex makes me uncomfortable. Because of this, I don't usually watch "regular" TV shows or movies - that is, live-action productions. Most of those are aimed at adults/general audience, so most of them naturally include references to sex. Almost all shows I watch are cartoons, either aimed at children or teens. I feel like a freak because of this so I don't talk about my watching habits to anyone but my immediate family.
I think im going to break up with my boyfriend because he lies, hides stuff, and constantly watches porn. I even caught him on live one time, but no matter how or when I catch him he denies watching it all together. This is his new take, along with telling me hes not doing it when he is. He even chooses to do it when im home, in the next room. Porn itself, i dont find a problem with, but the lying and hiding stuff that i am fully okay with behind my back is an issue. Especially since ive caught him lying basically everytime he tells me anything lately, including hanging out with his little brother, going to work, etc. This is an even bigger issue since i caught him messaging girls about a year ago...
Not rven dreaming, but it feels like doing acrobatics in my sleep that when I am awake, my body aches. Fxk you my fragile muscles.
I swear I stand so strongly by the fact that people who hate cats, have never been loved by a cat. And im not talking the "yeah cats are okay, but I prefer dogs." Im talking the countless people that come into the shelter I work at and turn their nose up at cats. The ones who when I say say where the cat room is(I say where all the rooms are when someone asks to look around) go "oh id never own a cat. I hate them." Ive always loved cats and always wanted one. October 4th 2018, i got that chance. My moms friends cat had an accidental litter. She did the right thing. She paid to get mom and all babies spayed and neutered and then gave the kittens away. In the end she was left with 2 brothers. I took one when he was 6 months old. And let me tell you.... He came to me as a scared boy. He wasnt fond of being touched. He hid a lot. He didnt eat. But after 2 days of giving him his space and all the food and toys he could want? He came out of his shell. He is the most loving thing. Im his favorite place to lay on. Ive had a lot of dogs... snd two right now that ive had for 5 and 3 years. And theres just... theres a different bond with this animal. I love my dogs deeply. I wouldnt trade them for anything. But theres just a different bond between you and a cat and you and a dog. And its because that cat chooses you. Dog are easy. food and pats and youre in with 90% of dogs. Cats are different. You have to earn every pawstep of their love. I remember one we had at the shelter a while back. I used to work cat intake. So Id clean the new cats every day. One day we got this old tabby boy. He was pissed. He was mad at the world. he hated everyone. I got a few claw marks from him from just trying to clean him. I dont know why... but i took to him. I liked him. I decided to earn his trust. So i set about my mission. Over the course of a couple weeks(we had no room on the adoption floor for him) I slowly pushed hos boundaries. Sitting beside his closed cage for a few minutes. Figuring out his favroite food. Sitting beside his open cage. Letting him sniff my hand. One quick pet on the head. A chin scratch. One rub down his back. A few more rubs. A chin scratch snd a head pat. Just slowly... slowly started to earn his trust. Then one day i went for it. I picked him up just long enough to put him in my lap. He stayed. He purred. He let me pet him. After about 5 minutes, He was done and got back in his cage. After that... we were friends. Everyday he would let me hold him and love on him for a few minutes. He would let others pet him if i held him, but no one else got the privilege of holding him. Then he started headbutting me. And meowing when i walked in the room. I loved that cat. And he started to like me. It was the best feeling ever. With some love and hard work, that cat went from hissing at everyone and everything to a calm and chill cat. He still went to be a barn cat, but his owner told us that he wants to be loved on every now and then. And from a feral cat? what more can you ask. cats are amazing creatures. You have to prove yourself to them. But once you do? Its amazing.
Porn is disgusting and anyone who watches it is sick. Yes, even you. Sorry not sorry.
Everyone is really pissed about the black incel who threw a kid off the third floor at the Mall of America. Kid might still die. Bastard got arrested in Minnesota. Trust me when I say, I know lots of prisoners. They are just as disgusted as you. They don't tolerate people who hurt kids. He WON'T live out his full sentence. He's likely going to get what he deserves.
I'm honestly impressed with this younger generation of Zoomer men. Never have I seen so many young guys talk about their desire to have a wife and kids. To be a husband and father. My generation of Millennials mostly just wanted to maximize their High score of pussy as if that was an accomplishment. I was the odd-man out for wanting a family. These kids are like anti-Boomers. It's great.