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Will tampons take away my virginity?

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  • No. Losing virginity is not simply penetration of the vagina - it entails penetration with a sexual organ, specifically. Masturbation won't make you lose your virginity either. However, many consider the concept of virginity as such outdated, as sex consists of other actions beyond penetration - oral, fingering and handjobs, usage of toys etc. Some people, such as lesbians, may not ever even have penetrative sex yet may be sexually experienced in other ways. So, loss of virginity could be considered a broader scale of sexual activities with another person. I think the most sensible conclusion is that each person, including you, can define for yourself what kind of sexual action is meaningful enough for you that it makes you lose virginity.

  • It may break the hymen. That's why pads are much more popular in Asia.

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I know I shouldn't worry about what people think of me, but... Are there still men who like "traditionally" feminine women? Because I'm pretty much girly-girl. I worry that I come off as dumb or impractical because I like cute things and like to wear frilly clothes now and then. And I'm embarrassingly emotional.

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  • There's someone for everyone :) Just be you. You'll find someone who loves you for that. Do what makes you happy.

  • Most men LOVE girly girls. Seriously, if I wanted a manly date, I'd go date a man. MOST men like trad women. At least with me and all my friends. You are gonna get MUCH more suitors this way.

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I wish I could make the people I love understand that I'm not always an asshole to them because I hate them, but because I'm stressed. That I'm not giving snappy answers because they annoy me, but because I want to get to my room as fast as possible because the tears are already coming and I don't want them to see me cry. That I don't never make time for them because they're unimportant; it's just that I don't even manage to get out of bed to take a shower, let alone leave the house. That I don't seem to not enjoy the time with them because I don't love them; it's just that I don't enjoy ANYTHING anymore. But no matter how much I try to explain it, they keep taking it personal and I can't even blame them. You can't understand this kind of shit if you're not living it.

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  • Please try to seek help if you can :( There are free online resources you can try if you can't afford help.

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I'm excited to start my new job tomorrow. The commute is great, very relaxing type of drive. Only thing I'll have to watch out for is school buses if I'm going to work around pickup or drop off times. It's in a town I've never been to until the interview so I'm excited to explore it after work one day. The store seems pretty relaxed from both times I've been there. The managers were nice. I hope I succeed there. I know it's going to be rough some days. But I want to stay there and do a good job. I don't want to go back to my old job.

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  • Congratulations and good luck!

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My anxiety has been eating me away lately. I feel useless, wake up crying for no reason, feel as if I deserve nothing that's been going on for me, feel stupid. I feel as if none of my professors would understand that I'm not capable of doing the work I'm supposed to because every time I try to work I start to get very negative and self-deprecative thoughts. Idk what to do or who to go to. Not even exercise is doing it for me anymore.

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  • First of all, you are capable. Okay? Don't tell yourself you're not capable. I suffer from anxiety and depression too, and I know it's hard, I know it feels like everything is impossible, but I promise you, it's not. You can do things. You have the power to do anything. You're not useless, everyone exists for a reason. You might not have found your reason yet, but that's okay! It doesn't mean you won't ever find it. When you start to think bad things about yourself, try writing them in a journal to get them out of your head. Write them on your skin and then take a shower and wash it away. Write them on a sheet of paper and then throw it in the fire. You have power over those words. You are in charge of what you think. Get those thoughts out of you somehow, in writing or in art or in music (even just singing along to songs you know), just get them out of your head so they're not trapped there. And as for school work, you don't have to do ALL of it. In college my processor told me 'You'll never be able to get all of your work done without sacrificing your health. The point of this is for you to learn how to prioritize.' You get the important things done and let the minor things slide by. And that's okay. Just do your best. Even if your best isn't 100%, it's good enough. Just do good enough.

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Whenever I google search something I never click the first link that says ‘ad’.

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  • I sometimes do because it contains the actual thing I'm looking for and I always feel so bad for doing it, like I'd like to tell Google "I didn't fall four your capitalistic trap I just actually need this link"

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The last couple of weeks have been horrible for me because of bad stress at work, and the only thing that kept me going was a party I was going to go to on the upcoming weekend, which I was really looking forward to. I don't often have the opportunity to go to parties, so I was madly happy about it. But now I'm getting sick. This is so damn unfair. Not just that I'm missing the party now, I'll also have to go to work sick next week because that's the most inconvenient time to call in sick (let's just say that if I weren't at work next week, that would mean more trouble for me than dragging myself there with a fever). But it could still happen that I'm sent home by my boss, and then I would still have to face all those inconveniences AND missed the party AND be stressed out as hell... it just sucks to be me at the moment.

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  • Just go to the party, man. Wear a little mask to keep from getting people sick and just have fun.

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Huh. Maybe my depression jokes only remind people they're depressed.

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  • Depression jokes aren't funny. Everyone is depressed these days, especially the youth. It just makes people feel extra burdened around you. Offensive jokes are great, but they have to make people involuntarily laugh and smile or else they aren't real jokes.

  • Ya think?

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My place of employment is always getting robbed...Yikes...

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My fwb asked me to stop whatever we are doing, he said he doesn’t want to lose his respect for me (since we were friends before everything turned like this), I don’t know what to feel honestly, shamed? Sad? Should I be happy?

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  • That dude's got some repressed women\sex issues. Be glad he gave you an out even if it was based on his unresolved mentality.

  • Fucking KICK him from your life. You're good for havign benefits but not as a respectful person? When did sex become disrespect? Fuck him. Or rather, STOP fucking him.

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