I would really like to date a trans person. Not because it's a fetish or something, but because it takes courage and strength to stand up for who you are against an endless stream of people trying to forcefully make you something that you're not. I think transsexual people are a step ahead of me in getting their sh*t together, because they have spent a lot of time thinking and figuring out who they are. And those are qualities I love and need in a partner. I want someone who can talk about that kind of stuff. And I want someone whom I can support, and who is also able to support me in return. I think that would create a connection that is much stronger than the ones I had in my previous relationships. There is just something incredibly appealing about a person standing up for who they are and not taking any sh*t for it.

So, I'm a young guy who goes to the gym often. A few days out of the week I don't go to my regular gym, I go to the one close to my job and go right after work. I've been going for a few weeks now and I always see a few older guys walking around the locker room naked; especially at night before closing time when the gym is near empty for the last hour. At first it was uncomfortable. But last night I decided to take a quick shower before taking off after my workout. Hardly any people were around so I figured why not. The locker room was empty, or at least seemed so until I stepped back into the showers and saw an older guy standing in his shower with the curtain open. For some reason, I glanced down at his cock and it slowly got me hard. I've never been turned on by another man until that point. It was the first time I saw another man naked in person. I stepped into a shower and decided to leave my curtain open as well, hoping he would glance over at me too. I rinsed off my body and within a few minutes he walked over and started a casual ass conversation, both of us standing there talking nude. Occasionally, he would look down at my cock and back at me. The more he looked at my dick, the more I felt comfortable looking at his. I would look at his with intentions of him noticing. As he kept speaking to me, I still had the water running. Before I shut it off, I rubbed my cock, as if washing it off, and slowly began to tug gentle strokes. I hesitantly stroked in front of him until his dick was as hard as mine. He rubbed his hand over my cock and put me on my knees facing him, he wet cock was hard and throbbing in my hands. It was all a rush for me, touching another man's cock, I jerked him off and put my mouth around it. All I knew to do decently for the first time was suck on this tip of his penis. I sucked on the head of his cock and after a few minutes he asked me to suck on his balls while he jerked himself off and he came on the shower floor. I want to do it all again.

Three of my exs are talking to me lately. Whyyy... I'm in the longest and best relationship I've ever had, so I really don't need distractions or temptations.

So I worked the graveyard shift with this woman in her 50s. there are a few other people but shes the only woman, and the others we both find annoying. everyday for years I visit her before my first break. its most to check on her, but I'll admit after so many hours alone its nice to have some human interaction. she shares a lot of her sexual interactions with me so I thought maybe I could get her to share more(pics), but she was worried it would change our friendship. years later, I get a Facebook message of her telling me shes horny. it shocked me and I honestly thought she was playing with me. she invites me over and i sit for a minute thinking if I should or shouldn't. its hella late after all. I honestly only wanted pics, and i never thought about sex with her. I said fuck it and made my way over. the whole way over i was worried i would over think it and have a softie, and that did happen. she was completely nude and so was I but my dick got soft even though i was turned on. weirdly she understood. got me a drink and we talked in the nude about random shit, she gave me head and I was finally hard. so we fucked. I slept over and she made me breakfast then we did it again. honest to God I enjoyed it, but I did worry she would regret it. anyways I went home and days later I went to work prepared to prove it wouldn't change anything. everything has been the same, and honestly it feels like it never happened. hell I had to ask her if it deal happen after a month lol and she smiles everytime and tells me it did. I just haven't been able to tell anyone. so yeah. that happened.

Is it possible to learn how to deepthroat without touching a real penis? I want to be ready for if I ever find a boyfriend, but I don't want to have sex with anyone before actually falling in love.

I wish memorizing subjects are as easy as memorizing pen-pineapple-apple-pen

I think I don't like him in that way but I can't stop thinking about him. He doesn't give me butterflies and I don't feel extremely nervous when I'm around him but he's always popping up in my head. It's annoying

i hope this transgender madness doesn't reach my country any time soon

I have no idea what my purpose here is.

I don't know how I'm going to survive past school. I don't think I'm going to make it. I really need someone to talk to.